Be mature; settle down buddy, these are the words which are harping on high frequency around me these days. I never understand what someone meant by being mature or being settled. As per my view being mature means being wise and give more value to the suggestions of your mind then to your hearts voice, satisfied with whatever you have and be risk averse or don’t take any chances or new venture. Being settling again denotes to satisfaction and satisfaction means lack of urge for more which can be good for the peace of mind but,adverse scenario for the peace of a heart carving for limitless fame, money and achievements in life.
Maturity lacks magic and without magic there can be no miracles. Be grown up, be responsible but never be Mature if you want to be miraculous.
Maturity lacks innovation, maturity lacks hunger for more and up to the most maturity lacks guts and my golden words to all my believers are No Guts No Glory. I still remember my childhood days when I use to go to the temple of Hanuman ji in Civil Lines, Allahabad, among all the religious inscriptions on the entrance I just remember one Veer Bhogya Vasundhara means all the glory on earth is bestowed to the guys with the guts so being mature may allow you to live off the edge but it always deprived you from grand success.
Settlement also has variety of definitions by different people but what is the straightest thing I can perceive is settlement again is a synonym of being limited, take the most common real life example and it is by almighty nature itself. A small pit settles in least time and gets dirty quickly even with small particles of dust, a pond takes a bit long time to settle and as it settles it also gets dirty relatively small amount of garbage, big rivers also get dirty at their settled points but has ever anyone concentrated on big, vast and endless sea, despite of containing the dirt and garbage in tones but it is ever beautiful as it is ever unsettled. Therefore for me settlement is being filthy and to be limitless you have to be just like sea never ever settling down it looks clear and beautiful and simply unconquerable.
To stretch your limit you have to cross it and being settled or mature for me is being finished. My colleges and relatives often questions on my interest into this field of writing because as per their definition having good salary, job and own conveyance is all a normal man can demand for and I must continue in this field of finance than in horror but they skip one thing I am not normal and the other thing I am more scared of Indian Financial Market than Dracula himself.
Mind makes you Mature while heart makes you Magical the choice is yours.
Since from my childhood I had been scolded for deviation away from my aim as I choose commerce when my marks were ample for me to get science, I had done Electronic Commerce instead of B.Com, and after doing my CFA and having good job I have started writing, one of my relative had told me that even the sharpest arrow is useless if it lacks aim and I always say I am an aimless arrow but sure to hit the bulls eye someday.
Writing is my cup of tea because it allows me to share my problems, my thoughts my anxiety with those who can’t react directly to me, one thing about me is that I never like to share my problems with anyone. My colleges, friends often call me negative because of this but I have golden cup for the same drink it may not change the appetite but at least the appearance. For me negative is the first step of being positive, I am not talking about the old fashioned cameras in which positives cannot be developed before negatives but about my tendency.
If you pile off the problems you will come to realize that negatives always have positives embedded in them. Problems increase your retaliation power, competition makes you sharp, pressure pushes you out of your physical and mental limits, fear upsurges your courage, pain enhances your endurance ability, and betrayal makes you trust yourself the most. It is not the situation but the reaction to the situation which decides your destiny. So despite of focusing on your problems just focus on your attitude. One of my favorite Bollywood actors Mr.Akshay Kumar had said in one of the promotional programs of his movie Singh is King that every person with positive attitude in life is a King.
There will be discouraging enemies, there will be non-believing relatives, there will be mocking friends, there will be denying destiny and there will be The Me proving everyone wrong.
It’s the negatives which drives me as I always feel more energetic in proving others wrong than proving myself right.
A very special motto of mine to edit my intro is to pay a tribute to the living legend of the fact that hard work can quote any miracle for you. He is Mr.Narendra Modi, 2014 elections does not only signifies the defeat of a dynasty by a common man but also the defeat of the destiny by hard work, a person who was destined to be the Prime Minister is in doldrums whereas a person who was destined to be poor is a Prime Minister.
Some sees him as a hope of India, some describes him as a communist, some says he is a dictator but what I see in Mr. Narendra Modi is a common guy with a guts to change his stars.
If consistency is the name of the game then commitment is its soul when you are working with these two you can quote any miracle on earth.
I don’t like support because by support you can walk but to win the race you have to be self-sufficient (Baisaakhiyoon k sahare se chala to ja sakta hai par race nahi jeeti jaati), neither I like those who always try to pacify me by saying that may be God hasn’t written this particular thing in your destiny so cool down.
If you are not satisfied with your destiny by God, write a new one for yourself, may be you will prove to be a better writer than him. Atheists please don’t take me wrong I don’t mean that we should leave our trust in God but self believe is more important than your trust in God. If you lose faith in God you are free but if you lose faith in yourself you are Finish. Despite of being countless things that you can be the best is to be you.
I never count destiny out but I am firm believer of one thing. Intelligence is the substitute of destiny, hard work is the substitute of intelligence but there is no substitute of hard work, so no matter what astrologers say, what my friends are uttering or my colleges are making perception that I am on wrong way the ultimate thing is it is me ,me and me.
Yes one more very interesting thing I want to share with you guys few days earlier one of my senior had indulged into an argument with me for me patronizing Sunny Leone.I never understand why maximum public has problem with such a beautiful lady for me beauty at its best is what Sunny Leone is. If we can respect our stupid and backstabber politicians, bribe earning government officials who are selling our country then what’s wrong in respecting or being the fan of Sunny Leone whatever she has done in her life but she has never harm anyone with her acts (apart from me my heart always skips a beat whenever I see her) And if someone is questioning her beauty then the only advise I can give to him is to donate his eyes as it is not coming in any use.
There are two really funny things which has made me crazy about her first is one of my nick name is also Sunny (In college they use to say that Sunny can never lose on Sunday, my lucky day) and another is I always find a touch of spirituality in Sunny Leone. She always makes me realize the biggest truth of mortal life that is our achievements go far beyond the actions of our body. Our body cease to live someday, all the diseases, all the beauty, all the acts and all in all everything related to our mortal body will vanish someday but the only thing which will live after us will be our names. If you can’t change the game you don’t deserve to be a player. Sunny Leone is a game changer in Bollywood.So Sunny no matter whatever is said against you one fact is crystal clear Baby Doll Tu Sone Ki , and you know that what is the best quality of gold when hammer hits pure gold it always takes the shape of an ornament and when adversities strike strong temperament individuals it brings out the best in them so Sunny you will make your mark in Bollywood my best wishes and love is with you.
Living a fake but popular life is far better than living an unknown real life.
My friends said that now it’s the right time to get married more because of I have nothing left to achieve so I must marry either love marriage or arrange as normally after having a good job and self-accommodation normally person marry but they again forget I am not normal. For marriage my funda is most strange one may not be liked by the majority of public.
Never marry the girl you love
And Never ever love the girl you marry
It’s strange but as I always say……..Jo biwi se kare pyar,Uski prestige ho jaaye beqaar (the one who loves his wife can never live respectful and successful life)
If you love your wife you have to sacrifice your professional time and if you love your career then you have to go away with your life partner it’s the present trend in our country take the examples of Shree Atal Bihari Vajpayee,Narendra Modi Ji,Mayawati ,Rahul Gandhi,Salman Khan and Great and my most favorite Shree Abdul Kalam sir they are the live examples of sizzling singles.
Now I come to my girlfriend I simply prefer to be mute, she is the only reason why I hate girls as it seems to be my basic aim to be the writer so as I can get ability to describe her personifying beauty, she was born near a magnet warehouse and no wonder that I always attract towards her despite of having deficiency or iron in me as my physician has suggested me to eat lot of spinach. No praise can be too high even if I compare stars to her beauty, as dozens of stars dimmed out every time she blinks her dazzling eyes. Her memories and my beard has a thing in common, no matter how close I clean them off they eventually came back, I want to dedicate a line of song to her …..Din ko karar nahi aata ,Raaton ko neend nahi aati…Jaan chali jaati hai lekin ,aake teri y6aad naahi jaati. She is the girl with glittering eyes and golden heart who always gives me a reason to live beyond life and limits. If i will ever have power I will make a law that no other girl will be called sexy apart from her and if anyone call he will be sentenced a lifetime prison, One special compulsory subject will be created on her, I would have change the dictionary while putting her name as a synonym of beauty.
But same old story Mohit proposes God disposes as in one matter I am very fortunate that by Gods grace her religion is different and we may not be able to marry so I have full chance to focus on my aim rather than this typical middleclass stuff like car, house, wife, children and what they call a settled and mature life.
Personally I don’t believe in religion, religion is the only thing which put humans over and above God as we humans are far more creative than weak almighty. God who boasts himself to be most powerful and intelligent has created a man with single variety for example –No Hindu has unique blood group, no Muslim has different DNA, no Sikh has wings, No Christian has horns we all are bloody same filthy, weak, little humans but see the creativity of Man, we have created variety of Gods one God lives in temple another in Mosque and other prefers Church. One God allow something while others prohibit it. What seems to be the message of every religion these days is to love God and hate Humans but one thing is sure that religion these days is most useful for politicians they are the expert users of religions.
As I realize that I can never achieve my emotional goal in life then why won’t I try to get on the mount of materialism?
A successful love can merely makes you a Husband
A failed love can make you a Hero.
I honestly have no regrets over my love affair as it hardly counts, it’s an intangible asset good for makeover but fell flat with time. Just don’t waste your life and please get out of those super stupid thoughts that I can’t live without love it’s not love its oxygen without which you can’t live .The practical truth is friends change, love fades, relatives jealous so nothing is permanent its only change which is immortal and because of this I have developed a habit of hunting positives into negatives and believe me negative forces are far more strong. You can forget your love but you can never forget your insult, big failure, unfulfilled wish.
Either you achieve or you learn a better strategy there is nothing like failure it’s an illusion of weak minds and non-committed hearts.
A successful love can merely makes you a Husband
A failed love can make you a Hero.
So enough about me go and enjoy the book.
About the book –
This book is about a group of teenagers who by chance get into the nest of wipers in a stormy night and when seek shelter in an old wooden cottage, they get a box containing a game – A Tale of Ten Candles.
A game invented by an evil king in ancient India with the help of a witch who cursed it with the protection of an evil spirit.
Rules were simple, all ten friends will sit in a circle with a candle lightened and tell a horror story, if the story will be true, the candle will off automatically or the story teller has to blow it off. If no story will be true than the judge spirit will appear and punish all.
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My Books-
Beyond Lights - The Darkness Knocks (Scientific Explanation Of God And Satan)
Beyond Lights –Shadow Of The Darkness – Book describing dark entities from India like- Dayaan,Chudail,Pret,Pisaach
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A Tale Of Ten Candles – Urban Legends From India
Fantastic Finance –Book on Strategic Finance
Books in pipeline –
Amazing Astrology – A book on Non-Traditional Raj Yogas
Negatives – Heroes Not Allowed
Bramhana – The most dangerous and Scared community in India
